forgiveness and thankfulness

I think one really important decision we can make for this year, is to always forgive when somebody done something to you. And forgiving includes forgetting. Many people say "I can forgive but never forget". In that case you have not forgiven with your heart and you are still carrying the thing with you and that will unfortunately make you bitter over time. When you decide to always forgive and forget, then you can leave the things and continue to have your relationsships, your peace, your love and the things happened to you can make you better, not bitter. You will be happy. You can be more concerned about how you treat people than about how they treat you! And that my friend will make you happy:)
And another important decision is to learn to be thankful. Always focus on what you got, instead of what you lack. There´s always things to be thankful for, the more you feel, you got nothing, the greater challenge to start looking and seek for them:)).