leaders

what´s your opinion of a great leader? Is leaders for you some position, some special character they possess? something you grow into or something you gain by winning trust with others? tell me what you think and why!

the law of sowing and reaping

what do you want in your life? in your company?
What are you then willing to give? If you want success, help others become successful. If you want recognition, give someone else recognition. Start by giving someone an honest compliment today, and make it a daily habit.

your why

"the one that also knows why he´s doing something, will always lead those who only knows what they do".
this can seem a bit hard to understand at first when you read it, but if I explain with some examples, then you´ll know exactly. take a doctor; some knows just what to do, but then you one day meet an engaged doctor who also know why he is doing this, he wants to save lives or he really wants to help people to quality. you can feel that he really cares. or a teacher´s why that is he really wants to help raise the children to find and use their potential, you know he´s much more positive and active than the one that only knows what to do.
So why will help you stay motivated from the inside, it will inspire you and help you keep on going even those tough days, even when obstacles arise. You get passionated when you find your "why"

thankful

tired and thankful tonight. I love the beauty in Grand Hotel. And I´m thankful for all these days and the effective tools I can take with me and give others. "we make a living of what we get, but we make a life of what we give" .(Winston Churchill)

it´s not about what we have..

...but about what we do with what we have.

you can be inspired or you can get inspiration.

both of these two are about activity, action. So it´s about digging into yourself and find your "why", find your purpose and act upon it. Then you´ll be successful.

Our coaching programme help you with this, in every area of your life. And the point in life is that we all can always be better, or what? If you stop developing, if you stop learning new things...you die a bit.

These four days I´m in Sweden, I´m here to get inspiration, I´m here to listen and learn. Even though I´ve been to seminars like this for about 8 years, I come with an open mind, I have the attitude that I can learn new stuff and I can also refresh my memory of things I´ve heard before but have forgotten. But activity requires discipline, it requires some other price to pay...for me of course it cost money and it is time away from my family for 5 days, but it can also be, choosing between some hobby or going to a seminar, or something like that.

A great thing I heard once, was that the best investment that gives the most payback...do you know what it is? Stocks, saving accounts......???

No, it´s the money you put into your own education, your own training, learning, always striving to be better. Personal growth. That will pay off the most!!

real success

real success is to live in harmony with your purpose

Nobody can take away your possibilities, you can only choose to give them up!!

passion

mankind search for passion. We find ours with you, and we will help you find yours.

Do you live your full potential? If not, let us help you and give you the right tools. I am so happy I decided to take McCarthy to Finland, since the company really have great seminars, workshops and coaching to help you. Wheather you are an entrepreneur, private person or big company.

The coaching programme is amazing and can be applied in every area of your life. It really helps you find your potential and grow and develop and achieve your dreams. Be successful in every area of your life!!! You are worth it!

After 10 hours intensive leadership training today I am now ready for bed, but I´m at the same time so really excited.I have worked many, many years with leadership and been training other also a long time, but this McCarthy is really a fantastic company, and many things I´ve known and teached others about I had to do myself today...:), otherwise you know the saying "the shoemaker´s daughter...", so today I have made written paths for my "why" in life, I have made a life balance sheet and I have seen my own direction in life and developed my own "trademark" and seen new ways of possibilities and inspiration.

The homepages are still in Swedish only but you can get a glimpse of some of our training programmes. www.mccarthy.se

3 more days in Sweden so I keep in touch more...:)).

leadership training

Tomorrow I leave for 4 days of leadership training. I will catch you up with more motivation and inspiration and soon you´ll be following me to Las Vegas....:))

enjoy your life

i like the saying: "enjoy your life where you are on the way where you are going". thats so true. Unfortunately most people wast their life waiting for something...or wanting something they do not have. Start today discover everything you have instead!! Write down at least 5 things every day that you have and what you are thankful for.

discover your inner power

You cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it within himself. -Galileo Galilei

self-evaluation

self-development take place when you recognize and learn from mistakes and failures and also analyze success. It requires that you take responsibility and not blame others, and developing yourself will always also require self-discipline.you do analyzing by examine your decisions and actions and the outcome of them. Remember not to take yourself too seriously, and understand that failure is just the way to success.

Self development you also gain when you do things afraid .
some people chooses to improve their weaknesses, but I usually say; learn your strenghts and work with them. Your gifts and talents and calling in life is surely among your strenghts, so make them even better.

Along the way you also gain more self-confidence when you learn to take calculated risks , put goals (write them down)and analyze and review at a regular basis how you are improving.

money management

there are much to say about money management, but I always try to write quite shortly (and that´s because me myself ´never want to read blogs where the stories are too long), so here it is;
Spend some, save some and give some.
To spend is maybe not the most difficult part:), but the other two...
But anyway, to spend is about planning and making a budget. You decide where your money goes. Most people say they don´t know where all money goes, they just disappear...NO , they don´t disappear, you must take control and know where your money is going. What´s your income, how much to invest, save, give, how much for bills, living, food, childcare...and then you decide what to spend on other things and when to spend it.
Save some, might be harder, and I want to share that in two also; you can spend some in a bank account to have for unexpected bills (for example, you need a new maching machine), but I also want you to invest 10% of all your earnings. And to invest means that you look for something that will increase your money over time, so the money work for you. Talk to somebody if you don´t know anything about this area.
Give some- that is important too, because the law "you reap what you sow", is true in every area. So if you give away, you will get. Fill somebody else´s need and your needs will be filled. Choose some good charity or just look around and you´ll find people around you that have needs.

no more afraid

maybe it´s not possible to never be afraid, but you know you CAN do things while you feel afraid. "do it afraid" is a really good way. Otherwise fears will stop you from living life to your fullest, the only way we can grow personally is by doing things we are afraid of..and do them over and over again. So start by doing a list of your fears. What are you afraid of in your work, in your personal life, in your relationships...what fears stops you from climbing mountains? living your dreams?:). Then write what is the worst thing that could happen if your fears became reality. And then write down what fear you will fight first. Stand up and fight your Goliat and meet the fear in the eye by doing the thing you are afraid of. I believe in you!!!

take action

oh yes, new week, new possibilities:). That´s great isn´t it? Today is the day you can start to take action. Stop complaining and start doing things for the better instead. Make the small changes that will sooner or later take you where you want to go. We too often think that we have to make those big changes, but then we fail, because we aren´t able to change all things at once. But you know also a big ferry, just shift course a little bit and end up at a totally different place. So what small change can you make today? in your actions, in your thinking? Be the best YOU, you can be! Have a great day!

hope and to hope

They say "hope is the last thing that a man loose", and that is true. You may not die immediately if you loose all your hope, but you sure will. Because we need hope. And as long as we have hope, we will take steps to action.
To have hope is more than just "to hope". That´s another thing, that´s not true hope. To hope for something is really a passive way of living. Nothing happens until you do something. Quit the words "I hope".. and "I wish"... and decide instead to take words of action in your mouth. "I will"... "I have decided"...is much better and will get you closer to the life you long for. Decide today your steps of action. I know you can!

John Maxwell (Add Value to People)

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our range of services

this blog we use to help you in your personal development in every area of your life. In help with that and especially if you have a company(or give this adresse to your friends that have) that wants to grow from good to even better and really great results, you should try our McCarthy seminars and workshops. The internet site is unfortunately still in only swedish but it will be translated. And the seminars can at this moment be held in Swedish or English, but will also soon be held in Finnish. We have a FREE introduction seminar and it will be held at different places in Finland during 2011. Do you want it to be held in your town? Send an interest comment here, so it could be arranged.

Other things we do at our company is improving peoples health and energy level by VEMMA. you can have a look at some video earlier in this blog or take a look at http://jeanetteljungars.vemmaeurope.com . they soon introduce a world revolutionary product; a drink for perfect sleep. Completely natural and with no artifical ingredients you can have your sleep and wake up alert and fresh. Remember; all Vemmas products are clinically tested and proven on humans. I have been working with health and different products for almost 20years and these are surely amazing, they are so fantastic! you just need to try yourself!

We also have a webbshop; mixshop.fi and there you find different stuff. We try to look for products that cannot be found in every shop and I´m sure you will find several news there during this coming year.

And last but not least, we have electric engineering that provides both electricity planning and installation and we do small or big jobs. Phone number to that you´ll find on our page mixshop.fi up in the right corner you click on "sähköasennuksia"

forgiveness and thankfulness

I think one really important decision we can make for this year, is to always forgive when somebody done something to you. And forgiving includes forgetting. Many people say "I can forgive but never forget". In that case you have not forgiven with your heart and you are still carrying the thing with you and that will unfortunately make you bitter over time. When you decide to always forgive and forget, then you can leave the things and continue to have your relationsships, your peace, your love and the things happened to you can make you better, not bitter. You will be happy. You can be more concerned about how you treat people than about how they treat you! And that my friend will make you happy:)
And another important decision is to learn to be thankful. Always focus on what you got, instead of what you lack. There´s always things to be thankful for, the more you feel, you got nothing, the greater challenge to start looking and seek for them:)).

GREAT NEW YEAR

Wish you not only a happy new year, but a really great new year. Do you have faith this will be your best year ever? You don´t have to make new year promises, but still I want you to write down dreams...what do you want to accomplish this year. Don´t limit yourself, imagine anything is possible; what would you then have? When 2011 comes to an end, and you look back to this year, where do you want to be? What do want to have done? how would you like to have spent your time? do you know time is one thing we can never get back, we can never stop, never buy more....