influence

many days we just think about what we want in life. What is our goals. But have you tried turn it around? What does your neighbour,collegue need? what are their dreams? What are their goals? Can you help them somehow? Zig Ziglar has said: "you can get absolutely anything you want, as long as you help enough many people get what they want". That´s so true. It´s about giving. Give and you will receive. some hints to become a person of influence: assume the best of others, refrain from saying the unkind or negative thing, seek first to understand(then to be understood),be there at the crossroads, live the law of love,involve and delegate