be a doer

I want to encourage you to be a "doer". That means somebody who do things, rather than watch other people do(or wonder why things happen). Because the worst situation we can get in, is when we feel we can´t do anything. When we loose both hope and action. But the feeling that you can´t do anything is nothing but a chrippled feeling that you have to throw away, because it´s a lie. There´s ALWAYS something you can do. In every circumstance. You are not a victim, you are a responsible human being with lots of gifts. And I can say this, because I have gone through lots of stuff in my past.(and still do...).
From this of course I have to later write about "hope", "action" and "responibility" but now I really want to say:
you can do it
you have the power to do something, to change both your circumstances and yourself (what you CAN´T change is other persons, so don´t go into that trap)
start by looking up a mentor that support you (ex. here if you feel you absolutely don´t have anyone), start changing your thinking, your actions, all the things you read and watch and listen to (such things affects us more than we realise, and if you want tips on books, magazines etc that is good for you, then write a comment here with your contacts, I always get back to people private)