be a doer

I want to encourage you to be a "doer". That means somebody who do things, rather than watch other people do(or wonder why things happen). Because the worst situation we can get in, is when we feel we can´t do anything. When we loose both hope and action. But the feeling that you can´t do anything is nothing but a chrippled feeling that you have to throw away, because it´s a lie. There´s ALWAYS something you can do. In every circumstance. You are not a victim, you are a responsible human being with lots of gifts. And I can say this, because I have gone through lots of stuff in my past.(and still do...).
From this of course I have to later write about "hope", "action" and "responibility" but now I really want to say:
you can do it
you have the power to do something, to change both your circumstances and yourself (what you CAN´T change is other persons, so don´t go into that trap)
start by looking up a mentor that support you (ex. here if you feel you absolutely don´t have anyone), start changing your thinking, your actions, all the things you read and watch and listen to (such things affects us more than we realise, and if you want tips on books, magazines etc that is good for you, then write a comment here with your contacts, I always get back to people private)

leadership

you are a leader! Maybe you don´t feel like it, but that´s true. Everyone is a leader. Some is a leader for one person, some for ten and some for hundred or more. But I love to encourage everyone to see their potential and to improve all the time. Help you see your gifts and use them for the right purpose. I am writing a book "a leaderbook for you who is not a leader (or think you´re not)". I let you know when it is finished and ready to order. You can also pre-order by leaving a comment.

looking back and going forward

soon is 2010 over and out. take an inventory of your life; what have you done great this year, what do you feel you can improve?
Make a list of everything, but be sure you have both good things and things to improve. From that you can go to our "goal" site and make new goals for 2011.
how are your relationships? do you need to forgive someone? or ask for forgiveness? Do you need to tell somebody how much they means to you?
how´s your economy? your work?
take an inventory- what are the 6 most important things in your life?beeing a wife, mother/father, employee, a person living your values... and then look at your time- are you spending most time on the most important things?

business manager

hi. I know it´s been very quiet here for many months and I´m sorry. I just had much with charity things.
Do you want to improve in some areas in your life? Do you want to be healthier, more happy, succeed in relationships, business and personal life? do you want excellence?

I am happy to announce that we are first in Finland starting McCarthy business managing (and manage yourself). Seminars and workshops and coaching. read www.mccarthy.se and contact us for free introduction seminar.